If you've dated in the past 20 years, you've likely encountered one — or all — of the myriad dating sites in some form. And as we've increasingly moved our lives online, digital dating's finally shed the stigma it once carried, leaving people free to meet others however they choose. How to whip your dating profile into shape. Julie Spira, dating expert and CEO of cyberdatingexpert. Plus in those days, there was a stigma associated with online dating.